A session host sorting his question cards at his desk before an online interview

Guide for moderators

Make the speaker shine. Make the audience feel heard.

A moderator hosts one session: a guided interview with the speaker, then five to ten minutes of questions from the audience. You keep it warm, useful and on time.

What it means to be a moderator

You are the host of the conversation. You introduce the speaker, ask the questions you prepared together, bring in the audience's questions, and finish on time with one practical step. You do not need to know the topic as well as the speaker: you ask the questions a curious, sensible neighbour would ask.

  • You host one session
  • You prepare the questions with the speaker
  • You run the audience questions
  • You keep time

Why moderate

A role anyone can grow into

Hosting a conversation is a skill you take everywhere: work, community groups, family.

Meet the experts

You get to know a speaker properly, on the prep call and on the day.

Be the voice of the audience

You make sure the questions people are too shy to ask still get answered.

Seen as a community leader

Your name and photo appear with the session, and people remember the host who made it easy.

How your session runs

Your event page gives the exact times. The shape is always the same.

  1. 1

    About a minute

    Open

    Welcome everyone, introduce the speaker in two or three sentences, and explain how to ask questions in the chat.

  2. 2

    About 20 minutes

    The interview

    Ask your prepared questions, follow up on anything unclear, and keep the speaker on the practical side.

  3. 3

    5 to 10 minutes

    Audience questions

    Read the best questions from the chat, one at a time, and keep the answers short.

  4. 4

    The last minute

    Close

    Ask the speaker for one thing to do this week, thank them, and tell people what comes next.

Prepare in three steps

The week before

  • Read the session's title and summary on the event page, and look at the speaker's profile.
  • Book a 15-minute call with your speaker. Agree five or six questions and the order.
  • Write a two-sentence introduction of the speaker and check it with them.
  • Ask the speaker for their one takeaway, so you can steer toward it.
  • Prepare two backup questions in case the chat is quiet.

On the day

  • Join 15 minutes early from the link in My events and check sound with the speaker.
  • Keep your questions on a card and a clock you can see.
  • Open the chat so you can follow the questions from the start.
  • Smile, slow down and enjoy it. Your calm sets the tone.

After

  • Thank the speaker personally.
  • Pass on any question you could not fit in, so the speaker can answer it later.
  • Tell us what went well and what to change.
A session host reading an audience question from her tablet during an online talk

Running the audience questions

The five to ten minutes of questions are where people get help with their own situation. Run them fairly and keep them moving.

  1. 1Invite questions in the chat from the very start, not only at the end.
  2. 2Group similar questions and read them as one.
  3. 3Choose the questions that help the most people first.
  4. 4Read each question word for word, but shorter. Do not read out names or personal details.
  5. 5Keep answers to a minute or two. If one runs long, thank the speaker and move on kindly.
  6. 6Two minutes before the end, say it is the last question.

Good practice

Do

  • Ask open questions: how, why, what should a family do
  • Ask for examples when something sounds abstract
  • Rephrase jargon in plain words
  • Keep time, gently and visibly
  • Make everyone feel welcome, whatever their language

Avoid

  • Long questions or giving your own talk
  • Letting the session turn into a sales pitch
  • Debating the speaker or the audience
  • Reading out anyone's private details
  • Running over time

When things do not go to plan

If a speaker starts selling, bring them back with "What can a family do on their own?". If someone asks for personal medical or legal advice, ask for general guidance and suggest their own professional. If the chat is quiet, use a backup question. If the connection drops, keep talking with the audience until the speaker returns.

Questions from moderators

Do I need to be an expert on the topic?

No. Your job is to ask the questions a sensible, curious person would ask, and to bring in the audience. The speaker is the expert.

How do I apply to moderate?

Use the speaker form on the event's Take part page; it opens with "I can also moderate" already ticked. We pair you with a session and confirm by email.

How long is the question time?

Usually five to ten minutes after the interview. Your event page gives the exact time for your session.

How many questions should I prepare?

Five or six for the interview, agreed with the speaker, plus two backups for a quiet chat.

What if the speaker goes over time?

Agree a signal on your prep call, then thank them warmly and move to the next part. Ending on time is a kindness to everyone.

Can I moderate in Arabic or English?

Yes. Each session runs in the language chosen for it. Tell us which language you are comfortable in when you apply.

Is moderating paid?

No. Like speaking, moderating is voluntary, and nobody pays anything.

Ready to host a conversation?

Apply on the speaker form and tick that you can also moderate. We reply within two working days.

The next event

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Multaqa Online

Sunday, November 15, 2026 · 2:00 p.m.–4:30 p.m. EST