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PARTNER ยท LESSON 1 OF 2

Outbound Referrals and the Warm Handoff

The Davila family comes up to you after the Saturday program at your Scarborough community center. Their father is no longer safe at home alone. You have about three minutes to point them somewhere good before they leave the parking lot.

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This lesson is about the outbound referral. The moment a family at your organization needs more than your organization can give, and iCaria is the right next step. Get the referral right, and the advocate can act on it the same day. Get it wrong, and the family waits, or worse, a stranger calls them out of the blue.

What an outbound referral is

An outbound referral is a short note from you to iCaria that says: this family at our organization is ready to talk to an advocate. You submit it from the partner portal. An advocate picks it up, usually the same business day.

You are not delivering care. You are not committing the family to anything. You are passing a name and a context to a coordinator who lives in the same community and can take the first conversation from here.

Platform Onboarding is required before you submit. Your account does not show the referral button until your Platform Onboarding modules are complete. This is the same for every partner organization, so families coming through you and families coming through a clinic across town meet the same standard.

The four facts every referral needs

The advocate cannot pick up a referral that is missing context. A name and a phone number on their own mean the advocate is calling a stranger who is not expecting her. Every outbound referral carries four facts. They fit on a small index card.

1. Who the family is

The family's primary contact, by name. The older adult, by name. The relationship between them (daughter, son, niece, neighbour). The neighbourhood or city. The languages spoken at home, if you know them.

2. What they are facing

One or two plain sentences. "Mr Davila is 82, lives alone in Scarborough since his wife died last spring, and his daughter Ana is worried about meals and the stairs." Not a clinical assessment. The picture the advocate needs to walk into the first conversation.

3. What they have tried

A neighbour helps once a week. A meal program three days a week. They are on a waitlist for government home care. Whatever pieces are already in place. The advocate plans around what is there, she does not start from scratch.

4. The best way to reach them

The phone number Ana actually answers. The best time of day. Whether to text first before calling. Whether the older adult should be on the call or not. Small details that decide whether the first call lands or goes to voicemail three times.

Why these four. An advocate who calls without these is improvising. With them, she can open with: "Hi Ana, I am Naima, your iCaria advocate in Scarborough. Hamid at the community center told me a bit about your dad and your week. Is now still a good time?" That sentence is the difference between a warm call and a cold one.

The warm handoff to the family

Submitting the referral is half the work. The other half is what you say to the family before they leave the room. The warm handoff sets the family up to expect the advocate's call instead of being startled by it.

Tell them what happens next

Name the advocate if you know her, and the time window. "Naima is your local iCaria advocate. She lives in Scarborough too. She will call you in the next business day, usually in the morning." If you do not know which advocate yet, say "an advocate from iCaria who works in this neighbourhood."

Tell them who the advocate is

Use the canon framing. The advocate is a real local person who lives nearby, often speaks the family's language at home, knows the local providers personally, and stays with the family across the years. She is not a stranger from a head office. She is not a case manager. She is not concierge. She is the person who picks up the phone when something happens at 7pm on a Tuesday.

Tell them what iCaria is, in one sentence

"iCaria is a home care service for older adults. The family pays. Your advocate organizes everything." That is enough for the warm handoff. The advocate will explain the rest in the first call.

Do not say iCaria is free, or that your organization pays. Neither is true. The family pays a per-service platform service fee to iCaria and pays the helper for the service. Your organization is not charged. If you set the family up to expect a free service, the first advocate conversation becomes a correction instead of a beginning. Say "this is a paid service. Your advocate will walk you through what it costs for your situation." That is honest and it lands well.

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The language the family will hear next

The first conversation with the advocate goes better when the partner conversation that preceded it used the same words. A short shared vocabulary keeps the family from feeling like they have been passed between two systems that do not talk to each other.

What good looks like

A good outbound referral takes about four minutes of your time on the day, plus the short hallway conversation with the family. The Davila referral, done well, looks like this:

  1. Ana approaches Hamid after the Saturday program and says her father needs help.
  2. Hamid asks four short questions and writes the four facts on a card.
  3. Hamid says, "I am going to send your details over to iCaria this afternoon. Naima is your local advocate. She lives in Scarborough too. She will call you in the next business day. iCaria is a paid home care service, your advocate will walk you through what it costs for your situation."
  4. Hamid submits the referral from the partner portal that evening, paste the four facts into the form, and gets a confirmation that Naima has it.
  5. Naima calls Ana on Monday morning. Ana picks up. The first sentence Naima says includes Hamid's name.

That is the standard. Every outbound referral your organization sends should be able to follow this same shape.

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Key takeaways for Lesson 1

Finding this again Open Training from your partner portal any time. This is a short reference module, with no quiz.

This guide is general information, not medical advice, and iCaria is not an emergency service. In an emergency call 911. Use every public service your parent qualifies for, including Ontario Health atHome.

Reviewed by Hamid Azzawe, Founder, iCaria Together · 2026-07-20